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Very important is the grade of independence. I think this is the key, the physical/mental independence will differ elders at home or in a nursing center. Obviously the home would be the best options, but sometimes the nursing home is necessary. The most important thing is not to always change the environment of the elder, if he is in a nursing home you don’t have to move them each week to your home or they will never get accustomed to it when they’ll come back. Stability means security for anyone.
One of the best things I ever did was having a complete discussion about this very subject with my mother while she still had all her faculties. Of course, at that time she was very independent, but we also considered the prospect that there may be a time that I would not be able to care for her. Anticipating a variety of different scenarios we covered our bases, which made it much easier later in her life.
I fully agree with what you are saying lobo, each person is an individual and there is no template for what is right for all. My own grandmother fought to stay in her own home as long as was possible. I think Kyle hit upon the key to doing things properly by having an indepth discussion with his mother. It gave them both the peace of mind that her wishes would be followed.
Thank you both for your comments.
Making a decision??? As long as he or she is still independent, they still got a choice.but when one come to a stage which require daily needs,this is where homes are needed.Dont you think so?
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Yes, millioniare, I believe we do agree with you, and in turn hope that whomever is in the position to influence those decisions for us in the future will also agree. A person can be fully competent mentally, but be unable to care for their everyday needs independently.